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How does one succeed in life?

13.06.2025 06:26

How does one succeed in life?

Procrastinates a lot.

Has a beautiful wife, cars, etc.

Scrolls too much TikTok/YouTube Shorts.

Why do so many people suddenly think it's acceptable to continue to live with their parents into adulthood?

Hangs out with loser friends.

Example 2: Maybe you want to lose weight.

Having a process that automatically transfers money to your savings account each month is a system.

How was your JEE Mains 2024 April attempt?

Keep in mind that, there is always a system for any problem. You just need to be willing to think hard enough and BE WILLING TO MAKE SACRIFICES.

Example 3: Maybe you want to make more friends.

An average man, let's call him Sam’i (that’s my name):

What does the Bible say about the Antichrist? How will we know when he arrives on the scene?

Can’t control his impulses (women, porn, masturbation, smoking, Netflix, anger, etc.).

Paying a coach with a detailed plan is a system.

Losing 20kg is a goal.

I refuse to date any women that are social media influencers, content creators, TikTok celebrities, and use Only fans. Would this be seen as normal, or would I be going too far? Why?

That's it for today.

I never raise problems without solutions. So, what to do?

Ask yourself:

Can the right person make a narc want to change their ways? Is love that powerful? Has anyone seen this or experience it?

Losers and winners have the same goals. The difference is their systems.

If you don’t change now, expect tomorrow to be almost exactly the same—or worse.

Do not set goals—set systems.

If there is an abandoned house with no owner, can I live in it?

Living to your full potential is a goal.

Hates going to the gym, eating healthy, or even doing laundry.

Final example: Maybe you want to be a better version of yourself in 2025.

If Donald Trump is so evil and Joe Biden is so good why is Trump the one selflessly providing Bibles for the needy while Biden doesn't? Why doesn't Biden care for America's spiritually needy people as much as Trump?

Similarly, "YOU 2.0" trusts you to make decisions for him.

Buying, a book like Live Intentionally or any other practical self-improvement guide is a system.

Attending 1 specific event every week is a system. Friends will naturally come to you.

Why aren't U.S. prisons more like Marine Corps boot camp, were every second of the day there are mandatory activities so that at night everyone is so tired they go to sleep until wakeup at 5:30 am? Would this make prisons safer for all?

Quitting porn for 30 days is a goal.

Saving $10,000 is a goal.

What I need from you?

What are some funny and smart quotes?

The money you’ve invested, the tailored plan, and the accountability of the coach make it almost impossible not to succeed.

First, understand that, effective "change" should be 80% systems and only 20% willpower—not the other way around. Do not joke with that.

Most people think their 2.0 version will magically manifest and find it easier to do hard things.

Are there any guys, crossdressers, or transgender girls here who wear tampons?

Big dreamer but only in his mind.

Porn blockers might help, but they won’t be as effective. And you know nudity isn’t just on Pornhub—it’s everywhere. Don’t joke with fire.

Opens a business and makes WiFi money.

How do I get a white man for a serious relationship?

PICK 1 important thing you want to quit or bring into your life in 2025. Think hard about a system that will make it impossible or inevitable.

How can I make the good habit (you want to start) inevitable?

In 5 years, YOU will still be the one making decisions. And if you keep your current habits, "YOU 2.0" will have big problems.

At what stage in your life did you realize, "No, I can't do this any more" and walk out? Why?

Cutting off WiFi at home for a month or giving your phone to a distant friend for a month (in exchange for a Nokia or simply nothing) is a system.

Self-disciplined (controls his d*ck, no Netflix, no smoking, etc.).

Like Sam’i, 99% of men treat their future selves like strangers—completely different from who they are right now.

If gays can get married, why can't I marry my dog or a cheeseburger?

Example 1: Let’s say you make a monthly income, and you want to save $10,000.

How can I make it impossible to fall into a specific bad habit (you want to quit)?

Avoids sugar and is very fit.

The truth is: Future YOU is simply YOU, but older and more tired.

Making more friends is a goal.

Example 4: Maybe you want to quit porn for 30 days.

“YOU 2.0” is like your future kid. It’s your duty to make decisions for him. It is wiser to marry a nice mom for your kid, not just a beautiful wife for yourself.

However, he firmly believes that one day, he will (like by a miracle) be that new, dope version of himself, Sam’i 2.0:

Does not procrastinate.